Divorce it isn't fun

 

Heyo everyone I know you are surprised to hear from me again. Well last week I was mistaken and thought that was the last time I would be posting but this time will be the last time. Now today I am going to talk about something that is unpleasant for those who have experienced it and those that have been affected by it. A divorce in the family. This has and continues to affect families around the world. Now I understand that there are those that have legitimate reasons. But the effect is like a grenade being thrown in a room of people. Someone is going to get hurt for most of those situations involving a divorce. Now the most effected I think second to the parents are the children between those two parents. It really is a sad thing to see. This affects children throughout the rest of their lives. Cause now they have seen a “failed” marriage. Now they have a fear of falling their parents’ footsteps. Another thing is maybe extended family will have to take sides. Which can create even deeper wounds between people. Now I have someone who went through A divorce. I won’t say their name, I just know what they have gone through is tough. It’s tough for anyone to go through that. Cause now the children must follow one parent and the parents probably don’t want anything to do with each other. Now if one or both the parents get remarried. Then the children and extended family must learn this new system of marriage. Kids will probably have a harder time with the new system. The child to the new parent has not been established and must be built which is hard. Some children may not even approve of the marriage to begin with. Another hard thing is friend must choose sides. This is if both divorced parents had the same friends. Now the friends must make a choice. I found some of this information in an article called “differences between nuclear and remarried families”. Like always I will drop the link on the post. I hope y’all learned something new from this. Now for real this is the last time you will hear from me on this blog. Just remember even though family is a good thing in society. Another thing is to find out more about these topics so that you can make better decision. Just don’t follow how media portrays because those aren’t realistic at all. Adios everyone.

Sager, et al - Differences Between Nuclear and Remarried Families.pdf

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