Fatherhood and Motherhood

 

Hola amigos its Jacob again here to share with all of you guys what I have learned from articles. Now I want to share with you all today is about fathers and mothers. Now I am going to bring up an article that brings up how detrimental it is when a father is not in the home. Now I will put the link(s) in the bottom of the post if you want to check out for yourself. The first that I want to talk about is titled “A key commonality in School shooters The left Refuses to address”. Now I don’t want to get political in this post I just think that this article will really hit home the things that affects kids. In this article they say that there is a common thing between almost all school shooters. That most grow up or are in a fatherless home. According to the article there is a correlation between children without a father and the likelihood that they will be violent. Not only that but those kids born in those circumstances have a twice likelihood of committing suicide. Now I don’t know how some of you see the world depict of fathers. But something that I see is that men are seen as not good role models in media. Now I know there are media and people that say good things about fathers. But I think when the world talks about the roles of father and mother. The father for the most part is seen as not needed or irrelevant. This is not okay because we know that if taught correct principles then they can become a force for good. Even the article tells us that masculinity if taught correctly how to use it. Will be a most productive force in the world. Its like nuclear power. It can be used for destructive power. Or it could be used to power up things. Now I just used that analogy to help see the principle of teaching how to do something the right way. I’m sure you guys have seen with two good role models in the home. The more likely that the kids will be a productive person in society. Another thing that I want to touch on is motherhood. Now I read another article that talks about this. The article is called “does a full-time homemaker swap her mind for a mop”. Now he goes to describe to say some people will say that a modern woman choosing to be married and raise kids. That the women become suppressed because the world does not see the importance of motherhood. I think something that the world gets wrong is that if you aren’t working then you aren’t doing important things. For women if you aren’t working then you are not being a productive member of society or that women could be more productive. In this article they tell of how even though raising kids isn’t going to increase your intelligence. You can find other ways to do those things. Now I am going to share personally that I have a mother who has worked most of the time when I was growing up. I was raised by my aunts for the most part. Now when my mom talks about family things. She said that she would have loved to have been a stay-at-home mom. Now I understand that there are circumstances that isn’t ideal. Like single mothers they need to be able to provide so they must work. But for my mom who would have loved to leave the working to my father to provide for the family. I think a lot of things would have been different if my mom was the one to raise us. I don’t know how that would have turned out. Now I think it would have been good for my younger brothers. Well, I’ll end it there and trust that you learned something new from this.

A Key Commonality In School Shooters The Left Refuses To Address | The Daily Wire  

Does a Full-Time Homemaker Swap Her Mind for a Mop? - The Dennis Prager Show   

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